if you think the way men use sexual violence or even sexual advances against women is about attraction or arousal or even sex you are delusional it’s because it’s humiliating. its a dominance thing. men seeing a woman and thinking she is hot i wanna see her naked isnt the problem. when he proceeds to shout something obscene at her from his car he wasn’t thinking about how attractive she was, he was thinking about the look on her face when she realizes shes being watched.