so annoying how at the end of the day it never occurs to idiots arguing about political lesbianism that it's fucking shitty to be in a relationship with someone who is not attracted to you genuinely and giving you 100%. it's like they see genuine lesbians as these passive accessories to be used with no concept that they want someone who truly desires them as well. like that should be the end of discussion, call it political bisexualism if you want to avoid men and are actually into women (that's fine or whatever) but be fucking celibate/single if you're not actually into women. it's demented to think it's fine to just be out here calling yourself a lesbian when you're not physically attracted to women. if politics didn't exist, lesbians still would.