idk man i spent my whole life being friends with boys most of whom i did sincerely like and enjoy being friends with but i can honestly say that never once did it ever occur to me to confuse that feeling with attraction or a crush or whatever. this is coming from a place of sincere bafflement i dont get how tf all these women who were able to be friends with girls and passed as straight ended up with boyfriends cause while im not gonna make a resolute judgement call i dont imagine its like tomboys that are making these weirdass posts lol